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100 1  H. Berke, Joseph 
245 10 Why I Hate You and You Hate Me :|bThe Interplay of Envy, 
       Greed, Jealousy and Narcissism in Everyday Life 
264  1 London :|bTaylor & Francis Group,|c2012 
264  4 |c©2012 
300    1 online resource (271 pages) 
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505 0  COVER -- CONTENTS -- ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS -- ABOUT THE AUTHOR 
       -- INTRODUCTION -- CHAPTER ONE Witches, giants and scary 
       parents -- CHAPTER TWO It's not fair -- CHAPTER THREE 
       Defile, defame, and devour -- CHAPTER FOUR On seeking the 
       source -- CHAPTER FIVE On attacking femininity: womb envy 
       -- CHAPTER SIX On attacking masculinity: penis greed -- 
       CHAPTER SEVEN Envy and narcissism -- CHAPTER EIGHT 
       Gratitude and grateitude -- CHAPTER NINE On sulking -- 
       CHAPTER TEN The resolution of malice -- REFERENCES -- 
       INDEX 
520    'Man' himself is the source of the dark forces against 
       which he is constantly struggling. The book shows how is 
       possible to transcend this basic malice by knowing how, 
       what, why and when it arises. Envy, greed, jealousy and 
       narcissism (the flip side of envy) are the essential 
       components of the negative side of the self. Their 
       positive counterparts are gratitude, generosity and 
       compassion. Each element does not exist in isolation from 
       the other. The interplay of these forces of hate and love 
       create the underlying structure of our lives, which on a 
       personal level is called "character" and on the social 
       level is called "culture". When malice predominates the 
       result is murder and mayhem, vandalism and war. This 
       encompasses the blind butchery of our environment and 
       fellow creatures which permeates so many areas of the 
       world, such as Libya, Ireland, Congo, Cambodia, or central
       London during recent demonstrations. This study will focus
       on the negative or angry constituents of the personality. 
       But it will not ignore love. On the contra,ry the author 
       will demonstrate that when people overlook or deny the 
       negative elements in their emotional life (because of 
       guilt or fear), then the positive ones suffer too. As 
       always, love and hate, benevolence and malevolence are 
       inexorably intertwined. The overall purpose of the book is
       to develop a detailed understanding of mankind's capacity 
       for destruction, as well as for making good 
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590    Electronic reproduction. Ann Arbor, Michigan : ProQuest 
       Ebook Central, 2020. Available via World Wide Web. Access 
       may be limited to ProQuest Ebook Central affiliated 
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650  0 Aggressiveness -- Social aspects.;Envy -- Social aspects 
655  4 Electronic books 
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       Hate Me : The Interplay of Envy, Greed, Jealousy and 
       Narcissism in Everyday Life|dLondon : Taylor & Francis 
       Group,c2012|z9781780490328 
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